12 November 2018

I'm 30!

  30 years of life
have happened for me.
I initially thought I'd do one of those
"30 in 30" things
but I decided to just put out some musings I've had instead.
 
 
I am not super woman.
There. I said it!
I am incapable of doing all of the things I'm
"supposed to do"!
 
And that's ok!
 
It's ok to not do all of the things.
For example:
this October we didn't do a pumpkin patch, carve pumpkins, 
or anything super fall related other than Trick or Treat.
And my kids are still ok.
So my mom guilt can take a backseat for that thank goodness.
 
 
 I have to listen to my intuition/gut
more often than my guilt or what others say.
I don't know if any of you have this happen to you,
but I've learned to mostly be able to say
"No" or "I can't right now".
We're heading into the crazy busy season and
I've already had to say that a couple times to keep my sanity. 
Or if there's a situation that doesn't feel right,
I have to listen to that feeling
and follow through.
 
It's ok to put yourself first sometimes.
As a wife and mother I am constantly
giving and giving and sometimes I literally have nothing left.
 

 
 For me, one of the ways I put myself first is getting my hair done.
I only get it done maybe twice a year
but I feel so good afterwards.
I feel so incandescently happy! 
See this Instagram post for more of that musing!
 
It's ok to feel emotions.
Feeling sad is ok.
Feeling happy is ok.
Feeling angry is ok.
Feeling exhausted is ok.
You have to give yourself permission to feel your feelings
or you can not heal.
More often than not we're told to
"pull yourself up by the bootstraps and get on with it"
and that's good advice for the most part!
But for some of us, hearing that just makes the guilt worse.
I agree that we have to move on BUT
everyone has their own pace and we have to find
ours and do what's best for ourselves and our families.
 
It's never too late to start your dream!
It took me far too long to finally
just start doing what I wanted to do:
Open my own t-shirt and vinyl business!
I've always wanted to make shirts at an affordable rate
for ALL sizes and design my own stuff
and it has been such a fun blessing for me!
 















 
 
It has helped my mental health in so many ways
to create custom things for people!
It's stretched my imagination
and skills set.
I've learned new things and can't wait to see 
what next year has in store for the shop!

Life is good!
Even when it sucks,
which we all know it does on occasion,
it is good!

I have my gorgeous girls,
my amazing and supportive husband,
my little business,
a home,
a working car,
etc etc.
How can I not see the good even dealing with the gross??

30 years old.
I remember thinking 30 was so old and wise
and you'd have it all figured out by now.
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
oh how I was wrong,
but also how much better it is than I thought!
As I say goodbye to my 20s and welcome the next decade
I'm excited to watch certain parts of my life end
and new ones start.
So here's to turning 30 and what a fun decade it will be!
 

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