Our Love Story
12 September 2016
Lately it seems
more and more often marriage is being discussed in some way or another.
Our lessons in church have been about marriages,
things on the news,
and social media make it more prevalent.
And since it's been on my mind so much I wanted to write about it here.
Most of you know our story.
If not, go ahead and click on "
Our Love Story
" and go from there ;)
Most of you have known me for years or been following me
since I started this in 2009.
For which I say thank you for sticking with me through
the weird and the tough haha
It's such a small word for what it truly entails.
There's so much that comes with marrying someone.
You are promising to take another person to be yours forever.
Not just for the good times,
but for the bad times too.
Not just for their appearance,
but for their spirit and personality.
Not just them either,
but their whole family as well.
You are promising to be there for that person no matter what.
Sure the words are easy to say,
but are they easy to live?
Andrew and I have had rough patches.
Every couple does.
We've only ever had one full out fight,
when he proposed, but we've had plenty of disagreements
The most important part of disagreements,
to me at least,
Listen and not just hear.
And after you listen,
Hear the problem and try to fix it.
Andrew and I fix our rough patches by spending
more and more time together.
Yesterday in our lesson a lady said something
that funnily enough Andrew and I say to each other ALL THE TIME
"Before you guys came, it was just he and I".
In reference to having kids of course.
Sometimes we get so caught up being our kids mothers/fathers that we
forget we were a couple before those precious babies came.
And while we of course adore them,
we HAVE to make time with each other or
I won't recognize him when the kids are gone and it's just us again.
I don't want it to be a stranger sitting next to me.
I want to make sure I make the time for him.
And he for me.
Marriage is an amazing thing.
Some are made of completely opposite people,
some are so similar it's hard to see two people and not one,
some are so in sync they don't need words,
some require words and communication to be understood.
No one marriage is the perfect way to do it.
Andrew and I have found that if we are able to take little trips
without the kids throughout the year, it makes us better.
Lucky for us we have amazing family that's willing to watch them for us.
Some couples can't do that.
And sometimes we can't get away for a weekend either,
so we've become somewhat awesome at stay-at-home dates.
Once the kids are in bed,
the night is ours.
We can snuggle and watch a show,
make our own dinner (and eat it all at once!),
play a game,
just talk and chat,
do some housework together, etc.
Housework is not one of Andrew's favorites either but if
I make his favorite banana bread, he's much more willing ;)
I can literally say I married my best friend.
There's no one else that knows my heart as well as he does.
(though my mom is a very close 2nd haha)
He is my teammate and partner.
I can't do this without him,
nor he without me.
Marriage is so precious and sacred to me.
We got married in the temple which means that we are sealed beyond the grave.
How could this
It has to be!
And how great is that joy in knowing when we die,
Andrew and I are
We're away from each other physically but
to one another.
Nothing can ever break that and for that I am extremely grateful.
I strive everyday to be worthy of that eternal promise we made to each other.
I love my husband and our marriage together.
It's not always a walk in the park,
but I do know that with Andrew at my side,
everything is possible.
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01 September 2016
August brought so many things for us as a family.
Right at the beginning of the month Andrew got in a little fender-bender,
but it did leave us without a car for a few days until we got our rental figured out.
And after about 3 weeks we finally got our car back all good as new haha
Poor Andrew took it really hard that it happened to him.
He was so angry at himself it was hard to watch.
Luckily he got over it and was back to normal soon after wards.
Rory started preschool the same week!
Guys, school has been a literal lifechanger.
While a lot of her attitude remains mostly the same,
it's been better for have a break from her 3 times a week.
It's been awesome and I get 2 1/2 hours to myself which has saved my sanity.
We spent tons of time with family.
Visiting Daddy at work is always a favorite for the girls.
They also love playing with their cousin and uncle.
We celebrated Jade's birthday with a very small,
very laid back "party" for her at our house.
Basically we had snacky food and room for kids to run around in hahaha
After all, she's only 2 so I didn't think a huge party was necessary,
and all she ever wants to do is eat and play ;)
We did theme it Mickey Mouse Clubhouse
since that is her favorite show of like all time.
My mom made all of the Mickey decorations all by herself which is amazing!
I've also been doing some redecorating in our house.
Our master bedroom is in major need of a face lift,
so I started it plus I've had a Disney shelf that was made for me
for Christmas and I finally was able to paint it!
And last night we had a family date night out at our new Cafe Rio
that opened literally yesterday!
Plus we went and got ice cream at Baskin Robbins since it was $1.31 a scoop!
Coupons for BOGO burrito or salad plus cheap ice cream!?
BEST NIGHT EVER!
I think the girls agreed!
I've also found the cutest little bakers in the entire world here ;)
They love to help me in the kitchen.
SO come get me September!
I'm ready for some fall fun and hopefully the weather will
soon cooperate with what I want to do!
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